The dangers faced by love are
also dangers for the civilization of love, because they
promote everything capable of effectively opposing it.
Here one thinks first of all of selfishness, not
only the selfishness of individuals, but also of couples
or, even more broadly, of social selfishness, that for
example of a class or nation (nationalism). Selfishness
in all its forms is directly and radically opposed to the
civilization of love. (…) The hymn to love in the
First Letter to the Corinthians remains the Magna Carta of
the civilization of love. In this concept, what is important
is not so much individual actions (whether selfish or altruistic),
so much as the radical acceptance of the understanding
of man as a person who "finds himself" by making
a sincere gift of self. A gift is, obviously, "for
others": this is the most important dimension of
the civilization of love. |